26. Breaking the Breadwinner Mentality

Summary: 
Today, Aydian and Mike talk about their own journeys with money, while they break down the “breadwinner” mentality.  Aydian unpacks how his early interactions with money ultimately shaped his perception of monetary success as an adult.  While Mike brings his experience of overcoming self-inflicted financing obstacles and understanding his new role as a financial contributor to his family. 

Top Take-Aways: 
  • Is it the amount of money in our bank accounts that really makes us feel secure or is it the feeling of having money that provides security?
  • How did watching our parents handle money during our childhood influence how we handle money now as adults?
  • Where did we learn this concept that the male figure in the home is the one who should be responsible for making all the money?
  • Is money a place of peace in your life or does money cause a great deal of anxiety and stress?
  • Do you have illusions when it comes to money?
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